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Managing Anxiety - Three Keys To Success By Grant Eckert Everyone
feels anxious at some point in their lives. Whether they are under a lot of stress
at work, in a bad relationship, or simply having troubles dealing with their
responsibilities, each of us has had a moment where we began to worry. This
reaction is something that we all share on a day to day basis, but for some,
it's not something that's normal or easy to get a handle on. For those, as
well as the rest of us, we need to think about managing our anxiety instead
of simply responding to it. Isn't Anxiety Normal? There are a lot of good
reasons why we become anxious when under stress. For example, when we are put
into a life threatening situation, the stress activates our flight or flight
response so that we can protect ourselves or someone else. Anxiety helps us
to realize when things area going the way they should be and when we need to
start looking for other answers or solutions. But not all anxiety is normal.
Being worried is something we can rarely avoid, but being worried about
things we can not control can often begin to control us as people. These
kinds of worriers will often be paralyzed by fears of things that might
happen, causing them to be unable to function in everyday society. This is
'bad' anxiety. Instead of just thinking that
you have to live with your anxiety levels - no matter how high or low they
are - you can take three steps to begin to manage your stress levels and get
on with your life. Key
#1: Find Out the Cause
Nailing down the cause of your
anxiety shouldn't stress you out. In truth, there are probably hundreds of
things that make you anxious on a daily basis. But to start to recognize the
triggers for your anxiety reactions, you will need to make some sort of list
of the things that you do feel worried about. Try to keep this list short,
focusing on the things that make you worried right now at this particular
moment. This will help you understand what you can and what you can not
actually change in your life. For example, if you notice
that you are worried about the number of hours you are working each week, you
can start to take steps to shorten your work time. If you notice that you are
worried about that promotion you're up for at work, you might not be able to
do anything about the decision that will be made. Key
#2: Daily Habits Make the Difference
In fact, it might be a good
idea for you to write down the things that worry you each night before you go
to bed. This can help you to sort of lay your fears to rest so that you can
relax and recuperate from your day. It might also help you to figure out what
you can and can not do in response. Eating right and exercising
have also been shown to be effective in the management of anxiety, as they
help the body stay balanced. When you're malnourished and sedentary, it can
be more difficult for your body to fight off the effects of stress. You will
also want to make sure you are resting during the day and sleeping at night
to further reduce your levels of anxiety. Key
#3: Know When to Ask for Help
When you find that your
anxiety is beginning to affect the way you live, you need to start looking
for professional help to assist you. This might take the form of a therapist
or a psychiatrist. These professionals can help you figure out what steps you
need to take to calm your life down and to help you get a handle on your anxiety. _________________________________________________________________________________________________ Copyright
by Grant Eckert Grant Eckert is a writer
for CareLink. CareLink is a leading provider of http://www.CareLink-svs.org
Community Support Services| Anxiety Treatment |
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