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Tips On How To Declutter Your Life By Henrik Edberg One
simple way to get an increased sense of well-being is to declutter your life.
What that means is just to remove all those things that you don’t really
need. Since
clutter and procrastination is closely tied together I’ve started using the
Make a small deal with yourself-technique. Here’s what you do: Promise yourself that you’ll
work on something for just 5 minutes. After those 5 minutes you can do
something else if you want to. But make a note on your schedule when you will
come back to the task and work another 5 minutes with it. Not matter how
unpleasant a task may be, you can often talk yourself into working 5 minutes
on it. And the thing is, you often don’t
have to schedule another 5 minutes that day. Decluttering often takes just
5-15 minutes. And when you have done your first 5 minutes you’ll most likely
feel that you should just get it all done. The important thing is to get
going. Often it starts to feel good going through all that old junk and
cleaning it out. If not, then break it down into 5 minute parts. If there is a lot of clutter
everywhere don’t get overwhelmed and fall into procrastination-mode. Do 5
minutes in one room a day. Or start by doing one small task a day. Declutter
your old receipts or your old magazines. Do it every day and pretty soon it’s
all decluttered. I’ve found it helpful to put
all the stuff you want to get rid of on the floor in the middle of the room.
I put it all in piles and start going through it. The messiness of it all
makes it easier. You just want to get rid of that annoying pile. Get a couple of boxes or bags.
Put the things you want to save in one of them, the stuff you want to
sell/give in another and get a trashcan for the junk. Use your trashcan liberally.
If you’re unsure if you should throw something away, think about how much you
have used it in the past. Then think about how much use you’ll have from it
in the future. Then you’ll probably want to throw it away. Declutter
your workspace
I find it very satisfying to
remove old coffee-cups from my desk, sort my stuff and throw out what I don’t
need. A decluttered and ordered workspace brings clarity and order to the
mind. Avoid putting post-its all over your screen and desk. Use a program
that collects all those thoughts and reminders. I use My Life Organized. Using 5 minutes a day to keep
your workspace clutter free not only makes you happier and more efficient.
According to a series of interviews that Brian Tracy cites 50 out of 52
managers would not promote a person with a messy desk. Even if the person was
doing a good job. They couldn’t trust a position of responsibility to someone
who couldn’t keep himself organized. Take a look at you workspace and see
what it might reflect about you as a person. You might want to look into
the Getting Things Done-system (often referred to as GTD). It will keep you
better organized and reduce the clutter in both your physical workspace and
your inbox. The book you want to get is called “Getting Things Done” and is
written by David Allen. The GTD system can also be used to increase
productivity and reduce stress in the rest of your life. Declutter
your home
One way to have a more clutter
free home is to bring less stuff into the house. If you buy a lot of things
on impulse and then just use it one time you might want to reconsider that
habit. Pause and think before you put something in your shopping-cart. Don’t bring junk-mail into
your home. I’ve started to move that kind of mail directly from the mailbox
to the nearest garbage can. Give away all the stuff you
don’t need. Or to take a couple of minutes to check Ebay. Whatever things
you’ve collected throughout the years could actually be something people are
willing to pay a surprising amount of money for. Got old furniture no one
uses? Put an ad in the paper for it. Take 5 minutes to do the
dishes, take 5 minutes to fold the laundry and put it where it’s supposed to
be. Don’t let these things pile up. Getting those small tasks done will bring
you a sense of relief. Use boxes to store magazines,
toys and other random things that otherwise just lies around. If you have a
system with written or mental labels then it will be easier to keep things
organized and in their right place. Declutter your computer and
online habits Declutter your bookmarks. Go
through it and remove bookmarks you never use. Organize the rest into categories.
It will make it a lot easier to find what you are looking for. Remove bookmarks that you
click impulsively but really don’t provide much value. These can be real
time-hogs and easily break your concentration countless times each day. If
you use FireFox, I recommend downloading PageAddict. It tracks how much time
you spend on different sites. It might not be something you want to know, but
in the long run it might be very helpful to know. Shut off your Instant
Messengers to avoid interruptions. Don’t put of answering emails
for days or you might forget them. Clean out the ones you don’t need. Defragment your computer,
remove the programs you never use, use a program like Ad-aware to remove
spyware. And clean up your desktop, delete what you don’t need and organize
what you need in folders. Declutter
your life
TiVO your favourite TV-shows
and fast-forward through the commercials. Limit the number of shows you watch
and only watch the ones you’ve decided on in advance. Cancel subscriptions of
magazines that you never get around to reading anyway. Always carry a pen and paper.
Write down every important thought. Getting it out of your head not only
frees your mind to think about more important things, it also reassures you
that none of those excellent ideas and must-dos are forgotten. Consider
transferring your notes to a program like My Life Organized to keep all your
thoughts in one place. Time is one of your most
valuable resources. Don’t do something or keep something just out of old
habit. What value does this thing or habit hold for you today? What would the
impact in the future be if you did it/kept it? If the habit or thing doesn’t
hold much value or won’t have an important effect on your future then
consider removing it from your life. And fill that space and time in your
life with something better. Learn to say no. If you
constantly say yes you’ll be out of spare time before you know it. Much of
your time will be spent doing things for others that you may not really want
to do. And stress and unhappiness will ensue. Think about a suggestion and
before you say yes ask yourself; do I really want to do this? What is the
value in doing this? Do I really have the time to do it? Sometimes you have
to do it anyway, but not always. You might want to be kind and helpful to
people. But being overstressed and eventually burning out will not help you
or anyone else. Ask for help. See what advice
your friends and co-workers have to give. If you know or meet someone who
keeps their workspace, home or other part of their life clutter free ask how
they do it. Try their advice and see if it works for you, too. Making decluttering a, for the
most of the time, small but significant habit doesn’t just increase your
productivity. A couple of minutes a day lets
you rediscover those pieces of interesting stuff you forgot in the piles of
junk. It can make you money. It allows you to experience the joy of giving
and others the joy of receiving. It helps you shed layers of confusion. And as your outer world influences
your inner world your mind becomes calm and clear. _________________________________________________________________________________________________ Copyright
by Henrik Edberg Check out Henrik Edberg´s
blog called Personal Development with The Positivity Blog http://www.positivityblog.com.
It covers topics such as social skills, productivity, wealth, health and how
you can lead a life filled with more happiness. |
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